“Special Report: Coronavirus…” This is the way most news broadcasts begin these days. Social media is inundated with memes, articles and personal posts about the COVID-19 pandemic that has our world at a standstill. The only way to avoid hearing about it is to turn off all media and our phones and never leave our…
Cognitive Dissonance and Closed Minds
Somewhere along the line, you may have heard the phrase “cognitive dissonance” but didn’t bother looking it up to see what it meant. Yet, today it seems to be something many people are having to deal with. Simply Psychology says: “Cognitive dissonance refers to a situation involving conflicting attitudes, beliefs or behaviors. This produces a feeling…
Surviving The Covid-19 Pandemic
Many of us started 2020 with the attitude that this was going to be “the” year. The year we would change our lives. The year we would accomplish those goals we had previously set and so far failed to achieve. The year our troubles would finally subside and life would get better. The year we…
These Are The Times
“These are the times that try men’s souls.” Thomas Paine said these words back in December of 1776 in his pamphlet “Common Sense” arguing for independence. However, I think those words are timeless. They certainly ring true today. What were the colonists going through as they fought for independence from England? Were they any less…
When Fear Rules The World
March 2020. Spring is beginning to crawl in and take over for Winter. Daylight Savings Time is now in effect in the places that subscribe to it. Days are longer, the sun shows its face more frequently and the dirty gray piles of snow are slowly disappearing. So, why are we living in a world…
Boundaries? What Do I Care About Boundaries?
Anyone who has escaped the clutches of an abuser or a narcissist is completely aware of what boundaries are. It was a hard lesson to learn after leaving that ordeal, but an extremely necessary one. Perhaps even without hearing the term “boundaries” most of us already know what they are and have them in place….
Self-Care Lesson Turning 50
I looked in the mirror today, but I didn’t see anything different. There’s still salt and pepper in my bangs. My weight hasn’t changed from what it was last week. The skin tag that’s been on my neck since I was a child is still there. No new ones have appeared. This is still the…
“NO” IS A Valid Answer
“How many times do I have to tell you, the answer is ‘NO’?” “But, just listen. You aren’t listening to me.” “No, YOU aren’t listening to ME. You keep asking the same things. I keep giving you the same answer. But, you refuse to hear my answer because it isn’t what you want to hear.”…
UNSOLVED! 33 Year Old Murder Mystery Haunts Many
There are a lot of memes out there making fun of us old housewives watching murders, unsolved mysteries, and true crime stories on our favorite TV channels. But, there’s some truth to the memes. Armchair detectives, we love watching the story unfold and getting to the bottom of things. I think we also love learning…
Have YOU Ever Felt Painfully Alone?
You just lost your job, your spouse ran away with someone else, your cherished childhood pet crossed the rainbow bridge or some other deep tragedy has struck your life. Suddenly, it takes every ounce of energy you can muster to pick your head up off the pillow. No matter how much you try to talk…